4 Parts for A Fantastic Relationship
Have you ever wondered why some men treat their women like a princess even well PAST the dating phase?
Even after many years these guys STILL buy flowers, they remember EVERY special occasion and they give their women their FULL attention when they are with them.
They NEVER retreat to the garage, NEVER ignore them to watch the football game on TV and NEVER disappear for hours on end to play golf with their “buddies”. Well these women could be using the “Cs” for a fantastic relationship among other things you may not know about. Read on and then find out how to melt your man’s heart.
Four Cs to a Fantastic Relationship
What makes a great relationship?
What are the ingredients for creating a happy, healthy, long lasting kind of partnership in life? I believe there are four necessities, things you must both provide in order to have a relationship that is as close to perfect as humans can make them.
I call those four necessities “Pillars of Perfection,” and these four pillars are the basic cornerstones underpinning every great, lasting relationship the world has ever known.
What are they?
The First “C” is Caring:
Both parties in a thriving relationship have to care – about themselves, yes, but most especially about each other and about the relationship as a third, separate entity.
Why? Because a person will tend to only work on things they truly care about. So the first pillar in a great relationship is caring.
You must be willing to commit to forever. This means, good or bad, heaven or hell, war and/or peace, you're willing to stand up and fight for what you care about, which is each other.
You must be dedicated to your relationship, to creating a life and lifestyle that suits you both and then doing whatever it takes to maintain it for the rest of your lives together. So commitment is the second pillar in a great relationship.
Communication is our way of getting our own thoughts, hopes, fears, and ideas across to someone else. If we do not communicate, our partners have no way of knowing what we expect, what we want, need, desire, or crave from our relationships.
You must be willing and able to talk, to communicate openly and honestly about your expectations in order to maintain a happy, healthy, long-term relationship.
This is so much more important than people think, it is the creator and great solver of many relationship problems, and if you can learn how to respond effectively to your partner, and communicate in a way that they will respond more positively that is half the battle won right there.
I will give you ladies a great tip later How Women can Improve your Relationship and then you can start to learn how to melt your man’s heart once again as you did in the past, because men and women view and use communication in slightly different ways, not only verbal but physical as well.
From the mouth of John Michael Montgomery, from the text of the Bible, and from the lips of just about every person in the world, in some form or the other, come these fateful words: You do have to give if you want to receive.
There is a give and take in any relationship. Problems start when one person does more giving than taking (or more taking than giving).
To avoid this, you must be willing to compromise in order to create a harmonic balance in your relationship. That is why the fourth pillar of perfection in great relationships is compromise.
Think your relationship is lacking one or two of these four parts for a fantastic relationship that help make up the pillars of perfection? There is no time better than now to begin work on constructing those pillars you feel your relationship lacks.
Why now?
"Why now?" you may ask and I say "why not." Because tomorrow may be too late, and you would hate to miss out on being able to look back on 50, 60, 70 years or more of contented togetherness and a fantastic relationship, wouldn't you?
I wouldn't be willing to trade that for anything in the world.
Women; How can you improve your Relationship
Here’s exactly what you do:
- First, think of a few actions you know set him off. Be specific. You know what they are, if you dig deep enough -- you use a “tone,” you make a face, you have a specific phrase you say when discussing a touchy subject, whatever.
And when you use any of these things, you get a negative response out of him. Write those down now and remember them.
- Second, go straight to the source: ask him what you do that sets off his emotional firebombs. But don’t get defensive...let him have his say...just listen. ( use a calm tone of voice, not weepy )
He may feel reluctant at first to share, or maybe he’s not even aware that there might be something specific linked to his going off.
Regardless, after you begin compiling your list here is what you do...
- Avoid those words or actions at ALL COSTS.
It’s as simple as that.
So forget about the work involved, and just be happy you are able to put in the time and effort now to ensure your relationship is one that will last, one that can stand the tests of time and endure forever, melt your man's heart and get the fantastic relationship you desire.
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P.S. Due to the overwhelming response I’ve received about these relationship triggers that can cause a good relationship to go bad, I recently found a video that explains in much more detail exactly how you can eliminate them to develop a deep emotional connection with your man.
Nobody really talks about this technique and it’s a shame, because it’s extremely powerful and works in almost any situation.
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